POETRY CORNER – November 2014

The Dawn

The Dawn

Today we have a guest blog.  I have a friend who asked me to publish one of his poems. It is my pleasure to do so, for Mr. Damien White:

Different Paths – by Damien Aerial White

We walk along in different paths of belief

We all carry our stresses and grief

We choose different paths less taken

But we have chosen the the lives we are making

Some are christen some are witch and shaman

But the path we are on is so far common.

So you may not agree, but this is my decree

Love one another

Love the earth

Love your mother for she gave birth

Love your father

For there is no other that could conceive

We walk many paths.

But there is one question you must ask

Are we so different and want different things

Or are we just birds with different wings?

When you feel a prejudice

Ask your self is what we want so different?


When the White Bird Sings

by: Emily McNamee

High on a branch in an opulent forest

a bird waits for the sun to rise,

her feathers spread in anticipation,

the tips dripping with earth in morning,

her domed head bowed, snowy breast out

sitting on a bough so slight

it bends on every  breeze,

and when the first kiss of day

breaks through the haze

and pecks her on the cheek,

she sings–

soft and clear and sweet,

and beckoning,

all who hear her song

to rise and shine and greet

the new and wonderful day,

until its sun is gone,

Then she sings again

when the sun goes down

to say farewell to a long lost friend

and remind us that when a day has parted,

its precious cargo ne’er should be forgotten,

each one a precious gift, to have and hold

as He hast promised

awaiting the day when judgment calls.

She never falters

She tucks her breast beneath her wings

waiting for the  day when

the light of the world dismisses the darkness,

and the white bird sings again.


What’s wrong with some people?

It may Incite some people or excite others but should gay persons and passable transgendered persons wear some kind of identification so that the rest of the world know who they are and not embarrass themselves by liking them or, in some cases, even to communicate with them? A friend, who is trans was having her hair done at a popular salon when a young woman, who was being trained by her hairdresser, with a colorful elaborate tatoo on her arm, began talking and seemed to have a lot in common. Both liked lesbian literature, tatoos, and feminist ideology. After the break, the trainee who had been gentle before, began making several mistakes. Tatoo girl soaked the back of her shirt while shampooing my girlfriend, pulled her hair while combing it out, and left the hair dryer in one spot so long it burned her scalp. It appeared that one of the transgirl’s regular stylists told Tatoo girl that she had been male before changing her sex and she felt duped then angry. At the end of the session Tatoo girl took a brush and changed the style of the transgirl’s hair to make her look less feminine. This treatment could have easily been avoided if there were some way, even for gays, to tell the gender and sexual orientation. Oh, to make this scenario more interesting or realistic as it may be, transgirl has had several boyfriends who beat her up after learning she had been different.     What are your thoughts? 

Life is a book.

Life is a book. All are writers whose pages turn brittle and crumble into dust in time. Scrawled across these yellowed leaves are the days of our lives, each letter a moment stolen,  remembered before it is written.  Memory knows, Faulkner said, before it believes, and Borges insisted, it’s long after we are dead that we remember who we will become.

A Pocket Full of Love

A Pocket Full of Love

When there’s tears in your eyes
And you’re feelin’ kinda blue
I’ve got a pocket full of love
I’m gonna sprinkle it in the air
Just for you
When your pet turtle dies and
There’s tears in your eyes
And you’re feeling down
and a little blue
I’ve got a pocket full of love
I’m gonna sprinkle it around
Jumping on your bed
bouncing up and down just for you.
When you fall on the ground
and skin your knee
Or bang your head against the wall
When you play with me
Don’t cry because I’ll tell you why
I’ve got a pocket full of love
I’m gonna sprinkle it around
And throw it in the air
For you and me.


Poetry Corner – October 2014


When i am alone
He creeps into my bed
Slips under the sheets and touches me
In all those private, sensitive places
I let no one else in the world ever see
And he makes me weep
Before I drift off to sleep.
As the darkness tucks me in,
And my eyelids flutter against the tide
I reach out with both hands
To see if he’s alive.
The empty bed responds
with a moan and a sigh
that escapes my lips.
He is gone!
And I am alone.
He steals my dreams each night
When into my room he creeps
And steals my dreams in flight
He makes me weep
Before I drift off into sleep.
Before I drift off to sleep.

On Growing Older

Oh, how repetitive that line about time!
Too short they say for any man’s dream
To come to fruition and bask in success
And youth is wasted on the young
Oh, what a mess!
But time is not the test.
The repetitive line we dread is said
By another one who once was young
And now understands the rest.
Time does not exist, only the present
God was not, is not some future thing
but was here along.



Creepy guys at gas pumps, excite me?


Driving back to Florida after the wedding in Virginia I had stopped for gasoline some place outside of Jacksonville. I sat in the car for a while trying to get out of that lethargic state one gets from driving too long between breaks. As I was getting out of the car this man drove up in a white van and began staring at me from between the pumps.

“Nice feet,” he says. I look up at him as I’m pulling on my sandals. “I like the way you painted your toes. Nice color.”

I had used OPI: I AM NOT REALLY A WAITRESS. My toenails were bright red. I wiggled them under his gaze. It was a normal response.

“So, you like driving barefoot?”

“It’s comfortable, ” I answered. “Especially on long drives.”

He asked me where I had been driving from. I told him, my daughter’s wedding.  He asked how many kids I had. I told him: three. He then asked if I was married.  I said: not for some time. He then volunteered his own life history, as though we were suddenly friends because of my marital status. I slid my credit card, punched in my zip code and began pumping gas while he told me he never found the right girl to marry. He had several long term relationships over the years, some liked him enough to marry but he didn’t like them and some he liked but they didn’t care enough for him to wed. Then he said: “you’re a fine looking woman, If you don’t mind my sayin’.”

No, I don’t mind, I thought. Wow, this diet is finally paying off. 120 pounds in two years. Although this dude is not really my type. He looks about fortyish and has a pleasant enough face, but doesn’t quite fit my criteria for dating.  He works as a sales rep for some company selling beverages. I think he was selling to the store that was part of the station when he spotted me whole getting into his van and drove over to get a better look. “Thanks,” I said.

“Maybe I’ll give you my number. You can call me. We can go out.”

I stared at him and hung up the pump. His thick black hair combed back over his head was glossy and streaked with gray at the temples.

“Well, I just ended a long term relationship.  I’m not ready to go out–” I had just told him I lived in Fort Myers, several hours south.

“Here.” He held out his hand through his open window. There was a piece of paper in his palm that he held secure with his thumb. It looked like his thumbnail was chewed down to a stub.

I hesitated and looked around to see If anyone was watching our bizarre interchange. Everyone seemed preoccupied with pumping gas or walking into the store. None were looking at two strangers In conversation.

“Just give me a call if you want to go out.”  He shook the paper at me. His blue eyes brightened as I stepped over the concrete island that separated our vehicles. There were no windows on the white van and no sign or lettering to indicate it was a company vehicle. I pictured him grabbing me and putting his hand over my mouth to muffle my scream while he shoved me into his van and knocked me out. Silence of the Lambs seemed to ooze from my skin. I stood a few feet away and reached for the paper. His hand closed around my fingers pressing my fingertips into his soft, moist, fleshy palm. It was warm, almost hot. I blushed. I didn’t pull away. He smiled and squeezed my fingers a little more and rubbed them between his before letting go. Creepy, I thought. I stood back and looked down at the torn piece of paper in my hand. It had a number scribbled on it. His hand writing was like a six year old, awkward and uneven.

“My, you’re a fine looking woman,” he said. I followed his eyes as they washed over my body, from my neck to my toes. I did look thinner in my long gray tunic and black skinny jeans.

“Thanks,” I said, wondering if it was the right thing to say. I didn’t want to encourage him. I really didn’t think he was my type. He wasn’t even very handsome. He kept staring at me as if waiting for something else. I stared back at the steel-blue gaze. “It’s been a long time. I mean I just lost a lot of weight in the last year or so.”

“You look fine,” he said.

“Thanks,” I said again. I walked back to my car knowing he was sitting, waiting, and staring until I got in and drove away. I checked myself in the mirror. My hair and make-up were fine but I looked tired. The van disappeared in my rear view mirror.  It hadn’t moved from the pumps and i noted that he had never gotten out to pump gas the whole time we’d been talking. I began to think about the creepy guy in the white, windowless van and the way his fleshy palm had felt, soft, warm and moist and the way he looked at me, and I felt a little guilty for eating a half of a cup cake at my daughter’s wedding.

What the hell was that all about?!!!

Heal the World? Am I Crazy?

I want to heal the world. What the hell is wrong with me. Here I am broke and broken and this young clerk at Macy’s looks at me, almost expectantly after ringing up my purchaee, a Kenneth Cole swim-suit on sale that I could never afford if she hadn’t given me an additional discount because I haven’t worked in three years, and probably won’t wear right away until I drop seven more pounds, and certainly don’t need because I have two others at home, but she tells me she’s tired too when she hears me yawn, and then tells me she’s working two jobs, and is recently divorced and making it all on her own raising her three children alone. All I did was comment on the beautiful bracelet she was wearing. It was black and studded with rhinestones that dangled on small delicate chains shaped like feathers of some mystical bird and caught the light. There was a matching one on her other wrist. She said a friend had given her them, not her husband, parent or sibling, a friend. So I jumped to a logical conclusion and thought she was gay. She assured me, after a moment, that she was not and looked away. She looked about thirty something, young, blond and pretty, no lines on her face that would have suggested she was that age so i told her she looked twenty-nine. She told me she was thirty three. She looked skinny and flat chested under her black smock, and her brown eyes were shadowed with worry and looked at me wanting and I wondered what for. What could I do? What could I say that could satisfy her yearning for answers that evaded me, after three broken relationships, a lonely,  broken old-maid, and more years than I’d care to tell her, having moved back in her mother’s guest room trying to sort out the ruins of my own life, but she needed me to. I confessed my own lowly situation revealing my vulnerability and lack of credentials as an advisor to a young woman working two jobs after a divorce and with three kids waiting for her at home, the oldest was thirteen the youngest was twelve, both boys, the middle child’s sex and age though in between was unknown, but her eyes still held me, a window had opened and I saw her raw soul. I knew she cried when she went home at night and was all alone, after she fed her children, read to the youngest and tucked him in, then went back to clean the kitchen, pick up the living room and slink off to the bath. Her tears were like lightening silent and fast, clinging to her cheeks and stinging moments before sleep. She wanted me to say something,  anything that might give her hope. I don’t know why she saw me as her savant, a reflection of her future, broke and alone and wanted to know if she would be alright. I asked her: what is it you always wanted to do with your life? She told me: a mother, a stay-at-home-mom. That’s when I told her I had children too, and like her I wanted to make it on my own, wanted to prove to the world and myself I could do it but I couldn’t and I needed help. I needed a friend to listen to my troubles, someone who shared the same history and similar dreams. I explained that sometime we all need help, that I moved in with my mom, and accepted her charity, kindness and counsel. I now, late in life, realized it did not mean I was weak, just in between strength and ambition and needed a rest. Her eyes didn’t waver. They held onto mine and she continued to stare at me still wanting. Get an education I told her, it’s the only way to secure your future but I  admitted that even with a JD, and MFA, I was still unemployed. Take a class at a nearby college, go to night school to meet other people her own age. People who could identify with her, other women who knew what she’s going through and commiserate. She kept looking at me waiting for more. I told her to love herself, that she’s beautiful–she stopped me–do you really think so? She asked. It surprised me. Yes, I said, absolutely.  She smiled for the first time. Not a big beaming grin but a little one, almost unnoticeable if I hadn’t been looking.  You already accomplished your dream, she was like me that way I supposed, then I said: Now you need to re-plan and move on. She looked at me puzzled. You’re already a mother, and a good one I can see, but you need to see yourself at forty, just ten years from now and your kids all leave. Her eyes widened. I was reaching something inside of her, touching that place she hid from everyone but for some reason, God only knows, she hid from everyone except me. Picture yourself ten years from now and plan accordingly. Take whatever help you can and do this for you. Your whole life has been dedicated to pleasing someone else, your children, your parents, your significant other or husband or whatever is applicable–husband she assures me–and you need to forgive yourself. None of what’s happened is all your fault but you blame yourself, I know, because we all do, it’s in our nature as women, but you need to do this, and love yourself to. Her eyes watered. You’re beautiful,  I reminded her, and meant it. I wanted to keep talking but something told me I’d said enough. She had to keep working,  and thinking about her future, the one I just gave her, and me. I left her standing there still looking at me or where I had been, and left her to her own decisions,  like a friend.